One graduate school guy's musings about school, life, and robotics.

Monday, September 01, 2003

Screw you Val


First, a quote:
"What Im saying is that you boys use gay as a way of discribing something negative...like if you met a gay man he would automaticly be less of a man and/ less of a human then some guy who calls himself strait...I think people who use it that way still have a far way to go when it comes to educating themselves. And yeah, to answer Erics statement on the post below, I did un-invite you guys to the city about a week ago to hang out with me and my friends and to be honest it wasnt only because there wasnt room for you..the only reason I mentioned it in the first place was because of Adam and his wife who I wish I could have talked to more were in town...you all were un-invited because I know that the moment one of you open your mouth on the subject of my neiborhood (boystown) or homosexuality of any kind you would be embarasing yourselves because you all sound so very closeminded...and it could be because you live in "little college where everyone is the same" world and havnt been exposed to how others view your jokes...thats not my problem...and its not even your enviroments because there are people who can still see the error of their ways through a sheltered unexpopsed way of life...And as far as SNL goes, thats bullshit...the jokes they make are about how gay guys can have female ways about them, but they never imply that gay people are lower forms of human the way you and eric have on many occasion...maybe you say things without thinking, and maybe I havnt made it clear how I look at your comments early enough...I dont really care cause obviously neither do you...And ya know if my opinion on this costs me the little bit of friendship I have left with either of you guys, so be it...I dont need be in the company of people who put other things down to make them feel better about themselves."

Then a breakdown:
"What Im saying is that you boys use gay as a way of discribing something negative...like if you met a gay man he would automaticly be less of a man and/ less of a human then some guy who calls himself strait"
Stop right there. Are you telling me you've never said something was "gay"? REALLY? Since when?

"I think people who use it that way still have a far way to go when it comes to educating themselves."
Oh I see! After you were educated! Of course...

"And yeah, to answer Erics statement on the post below, I did un-invite you guys to the city about a week ago to hang out with me and my friends and to be honest it wasnt only because there wasnt room for you..the only reason I mentioned it in the first place was because of Adam and his wife who I wish I could have talked to more were in town...you all were un-invited because I know that the moment one of you open your mouth on the subject of my neiborhood (boystown) or homosexuality of any kind you would be embarasing yourselves because you all sound so very closeminded..."
So, not only are you stuck up, you're also devious... Good good.
Do you know who I interact with at school? Do you know whether or not I have gay friends? No? *shrug* I guess you don't know me very well. I have no issues with gay people. I hang out with friends who are gay at ACM activities, and at social functions. So you're stuck up, devious, and not good at reading people. Excellent.


"and it could be because you live in "little college where everyone is the same" world and havnt been exposed to how others view your jokes...thats not my problem...and its not even your enviroments because there are people who can still see the error of their ways through a sheltered unexpopsed way of life..."
So, you're REALLY stuck up. My "little college where everyone is the same"? My schools about... 1000% bigger than yours, with people from every walk of life, creed and culture, and you have the audacity to say that "everyone is the same"? So your REALLY stuck up, devious, not good at reading people, and an idiot.

"And as far as SNL goes, thats bullshit...the jokes they make are about how gay guys can have female ways about them, but they never imply that gay people are lower forms of human the way you and eric have on many occasion..."
Huh? When? Gay people are a lower form of human? Sorry, snooty, you won't hear it from my corner.

"maybe you say things without thinking, and maybe I havnt made it clear how I look at your comments early enough...I dont really care cause obviously neither do you..."
Would I have responded in the first place if I didn't care? Didn't think so... Really stuck up, devious, not good at reading people, an idiot, and tactless. Awesome.

"And ya know if my opinion on this costs me the little bit of friendship I have left with either of you guys, so be it...I dont need be in the company of people who put other things down to make them feel better about themselves."
I've put down your friends or gays... when? And why do I need to make myself feel better by putting others down? I dealt with that shit for YEARS, little Miss Perfect. There's NO way I'm turning that on others. Fuck it. Friends or no, you don't tell people off, especially with BS like this. Up to you if you want to put this back together. If I had been reading the posts, I would have written this right away, but I guess you'll have to deal with a delay.

This shit's pissed me off. Back to my reading I guess.

I feel: Angry >8(

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